As someone who really wants to get married this lecture is an encouragement and simultaneously a reality check. The tendency to idealize marriage and my future spouse is very strong, I find this lecture is extremely helpful in breathing some Gospel into that idea.

While  kind of lengthy I really encourage you to listen to the whole thing, its especially on point  for us guys.

(As a small disclaimer I am not fully inline with all the theology espoused in this lecture, but find the benefits far outweigh any of my objections)